You need to give her space if you want to get your ex girl back but it doesn't mean you have to ignore her forever. When enough time has passed then it could be safe to call her again. But don't frequent your calls. Just talk to her once in a while so that she knows you're still thinking about her.
2. Email her or send her text messages
You may be unsure what to say over the phone or you're nervous talking to her again. Then how about sending her a text message or email first? This way, you can edit what you're going to say to her and it's also a great way to break the ice. If she replies to you then it means she doesn't mind hearing from you again.
3. Don't date around
Going into a rebound relationship is not the answer. Sure, you want to deal with the breakup but if she sees you with another woman then she might get the wrong idea. She may feel that you're trying to make her jealous or that you've moved on and don't care about her anymore.
4. Remember her birthday
Just because you're no longer dating doesn't mean that you should forget her birthday. You don't have to go all out and buy her an expensive gift because it would look like you're trying too hard. Greeting her on her birthday is a sweet gesture. It shows that you still care about her because you haven't forgotten her special day.
5. Take some time off
All this breakup and grief is starting to take a toll on you. You're always miserable and the pain is all you can think about. While it's important to grieve, it's also important to get back on your feet and go on with your life. Hang out with friends and keep your mind off the relationship because she's not going to want you back if you're being miserable all the time.
6. Don't be the jealous ex
You may want to punch the guy out when you see him with her but you need to understand that she's not your girl anymore. If you want to win her back then making a scene and acting like a jerk won't do it. She's only going to feel smug because you're obviously affected or she's going to be annoyed because you ruined her night.
7. Don't give her too much power
If she sees just how affected you are by the breakup then she's going to be holding all the cards. She may start dating around because she knows that if things don't work out with those other guys she could always return to you. You need to show that yes, you miss her but your life doesn't stop just because she's gone.
8. Make positive changes
To get your ex girl back you're going to have to make some positive changes about yourself. Improve yourself and strive to be a better person. This isn't just for her, this is for you as well. Being a better man will help you become more confident and that will definitely get her attention.
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